Home Life

All families are different. Some are big, some are small, and all families go through challenges. You might be dealing with:

• Arguments

• Divorce or separation

• Money worries

• Stress and pressure at home

• Mental health issues

• Drug or alcohol misuse

• Family breakdown

• Someone being hurt, scared, or abused

People change, and families sometimes struggle to adapt. It’s normal not to get on all the time — but it’s important to talk about how you feel.

If you ever feel unsafe, worried, or afraid, you should reach out for support right away.

Wirral Integrated Front Door
📞 0151 606 2008 (9am–5pm)
📞 0151 677 6557 (out of hours)
📧 ifd@wirral.gov.uk

You can also contact Childline at any time.

Everyone argues — it’s part of life. People get angry, upset, or frustrated, and sometimes it comes out in heated moments. Arguments can take time to calm down.

It’s okay to disagree.
It’s okay for others to be upset.
It’s okay to need space.

But there’s a big difference between an argument and aggression.
If someone threatens you, hurts you, or you’re scared at home — that’s abuse, and it is NEVER your fault.

If this is happening to you, reach out for support immediately.

Let things calm down

Wait until emotions settle before trying to talk.

Say sorry (if it’s needed)

If you’ve done something wrong, apologising can help repair things for everyone.

Talk to someone you trust

A friend, family member, youth worker, or adult can help you make sense of how you feel.

Keep calm

Controlling your reactions can stop things from getting worse, even if others are upset.

Be honest

Share how you feel without being aggressive. You’re allowed to ask for what you need.

Get support if you feel unsafe

Your safety always comes first.

Domestic abuse isn’t just physical. It can be:

• Emotional

• Psychological

• Sexual

• Financial

• Coercive or controlling behaviour

Domestic abuse includes:

• Being forced or pressured to do things

• Being too scared to say “no”

• Feeling like you’re “walking on eggshells”

• Being constantly monitored or controlled

• Being stopped from seeing family or friends

• Being threatened

• Being physically or sexually hurt

• Having your freedom restricted

• Being frightened to speak up or leave

Anyone can experience domestic abuse — regardless of age, background, gender, sexuality, or income.

If you or someone you know is in danger:
📞 Call 999 immediately.

If it’s not an emergency, or you’re worried about someone under 18:
📞 Wirral Integrated Front Door – 0151 606 2008 (9am–5pm)
📞 Out of hours – 0151 677 6557

Abuse can happen in teenage relationships too. It might look like:

• Pressure to do things you don’t want to do

• Jealousy or controlling behaviour

• Being isolated from friends

• Sexual pressure or assault

• Being threatened or intimidated

1 in 5 teenage girls experience violence in relationships, and many young people report emotional or sexual pressure.
If something feels wrong, it is wrong.

You deserve respect, safety, and kindness.

You can report abuse:

• In an emergency: Call 999

• Non‑emergency: Call Merseyside Police on 101

• Anonymously: Through Crimestoppers – 0800 555 111

Concerns about a child or young person can be reported to:
📧 cadtsocialcare@wirral.gcsx.gov.uk
📞 0151 606 2008 (Mon–Fri 9am–5pm)
📞 0151 677 6557 (outside these hours)

The most important thing: tell someone.

Homelessness doesn't always mean sleeping outside. You may be homeless if:

• You’re sofa surfing

• Living in temporary accommodation

• Staying somewhere unsafe

• Unable to stay home because of abuse

If you’re worried about homelessness in Wirral:
📧 cadtsocialcare@wirral.gcsx.gov.uk
📞 0151 606 2008 (Mon–Fri 9am–5pm)
📞 0151 677 6557 (out of hours)

A young carer is someone under 18 who helps look after a family member who:

• Has a disability

• Has a long‑term illness

• Has mental health difficulties

• Uses alcohol or drugs

• Struggles with daily tasks

Young carers often help with:

• Cooking, cleaning, shopping

• Helping someone dress or move

• Managing medication

• Looking after siblings

• Emotional support

Young carers learn incredible skills — but caring can affect school, friendships, mental health, and confidence.

You deserve support too.

Support for Young Carers (Wirral)

Barnardo’s supports young carers in Wirral with:

• Someone to talk to

• A break from caring

• Help in school or college

• Emotional support

• Information about the condition your family member has

📞 07584 270344
📧 wirral.services@barnardos.org.uk

Many families are struggling with rising costs. If money worries are affecting your home life, support is available for:

• Food

• Clothing

• Bills

• Heating

• Household essentials

• Emergency support

• Debt advice

Contact:
📞 Wirral Foodbank – 0151 638 7090
📞 Citizens Advice Wirral – 0808 278 7848
📞 Wirral Council Helpline – 0151 666 5050

You and your family do not have to cope alone.